![]() ![]() ![]() so that is something to keep in mind when using certain traits to explain several enneatypes at once in relation to IV. sp E4 and sp E8 'aggression' are not the same, neither is soc 6 or soc 1 'compliance'. Generally speaking, I'd say look at the enneatype and nature of the IV itself and try get a deeper understanding of what it actually means and how they actually work together and look into why, for example, sp 5 and sp 6 'withdrawn' are not the same. However, there is no solid consensus on this, some say that sx goes against 5 because it's intimacy VS detachment (makes sense), and this site itself gives sp/sx to be the IV that flows most with 5 (meaning soc is least 'compatible', instead of just sx) though as you can see, it is not really explained why. For examples of 'flow', Enneagram 5 gets along with sp well with their withdrawn, and generally reserved tendencies, Enneagram 6 with their tendency of preparing, anticipating, troubleshooting, generally keeping things 'stable' and 'safe' and being security-oriented, 9s with 'merging' (which is often correlated with sx), and it goes on. Sadly, since the site itself does not explain, I can only guess that they mean / subscribe to that theory (sounds a bit like countertype theory) that IVs are natural 'pulls' so to speak, and some flow 'with' the natural workings and motivations of a type more than others, and some 'counter' them. I am not sure about the actual statistics, and I cannot find any, but supposedly sx is the rarest variant across the board. When the Eight wing is dominant, they sometimes even develop a sense of entitlement, though they are just as likely to return help to those they charm into helping them." They drift, and tend to use their charm to get a lot of their self-pres needs met by the people in their lives. With the self-pres instinct last in the stacking, they have a hard time tending to their own needs. On the down side, they can be frustrating because they can easily lose focus when it comes to their life priorities. "This subtype is “everyone’s friend.†The social/sexual energy combines with the Nine’s merging tendency and conflict avoidance to create a subtype that is very charming and uses humor quite extensively to engage with the people in their lives. When under stress, this type is likely to do busy work, anything that distracts them from their problems." While self-pres needs are important to this type, the fact that they are essentially Nines, sometimes causes them to put the needs of others before their own. But when given a chance and the time to express themselves, they can be quite talkative. They are therefore often very short and concise with their communication, not wanting to provoke any confrontation. They sometimes get frustrated because they don’t feel that they can say what they really want to say. This subtype is usually very deliberate and methodical in their speech. They feel as though it’s just not worth it. While they do desire attention and recognition, with the sexual instinct last in the stacking, they seldom actively pursue it. They can feel as though they have been looked over and passed by. "This subtype is the most self-effacing of type Nine, possibly the least assertive of all the enneagram types. this site is even better than the one I was trying to find. ![]() It may be easier/faster to google what the differences are rofl (rushing off to see for myself). Here's one good site: Type Nine — The Enneagram Institute But it's not the one I was thinking about either lol. What the heck does that even mean lol? Is it 'the stacking more common for 9' or is it talking about the interactions of others when dealing with a 9? The stacking that flows the most against 9: "The stacking that flows the most WITH 9: Great info about the different functions. I was looking for one site among my bookmarks but found another: Enneagram Type 9 - Enneagram Universe (Good God, I loathe that black background though!!!) 954/963) might actively avoid this "merge" by avoiding others or preemptively saying "no" to people." My kids ask "Hey, can you do me a favor?" I automatically shoot back with "I doubt it." rofl. Heh, just another reason to trust my self-typing of 945 " Whereas other 9's (ex. ![]()
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